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The quiet ones who really run the office

The quiet ones who really run the office

In the high-octane world of modern corporate life, where leadership is measured in metrics, titles, and decisive authority, a quieter force operates in the shadows. These are the soft influencers—individuals with no formal power who command immense respect. They don’t issue directives or lead weekly meetings, yet their impact radiates subtly across teams, creating psychological safety and nudging progress forward through empathy and insight alone.

As organisations evolve and expectations of leaders become more humane, this silent support system grows increasingly vital. “In today’s very dynamic, hectic business world, how you deal with your team is of utmost importance,” observes Praveen Purohit, deputy chief human resources officer, Vedanta Resources. “Everybody is looking for some kind of comfort, even while they are at work.”

“In today’s very dynamic, hectic business world, how you deal with your team is of utmost importance. Everybody is looking for some kind of comfort, even while they are at work.”

Praveen Purohit, Deputy Chief Human Resources Officer, Vedanta Resources

The shift is profound. Where once work-life balance dominated HR conversations, the focus has moved to helping people manage pressure during work hours itself. Purohit argues that soft influence—exercised through transparency, clear expectations, and trust—creates environments where employees feel genuinely supported.

Authority without recognition

The power of these invisible leaders becomes particularly striking when examining individuals who hold no formal authority yet carry enormous weight in decision-making circles. Anil Mohanty, group head-HR, Falcon Marine Exports, recalls observing such a person at a large conglomerate.

“There was someone I closely observed—he had no formal designation. He wasn’t the CEO, MD, or even a department head. Yet, he drove some of the most critical projects in the organisation,” Mohanty explains. “No one had officially given him authority, but everyone trusted and listened to him.”

“Every organisation has such people. They may not be visible on paper, but internally, they are the ones others instinctively turn to for direction and clarity.”

Anil Mohanty, Group Head-HR, Falcon Marine Exports

This individual’s influence appeared nowhere on organisational charts. He carried no symbols of rank, used no title in his signature, yet remained central to major initiatives with direct access to top leadership. His presence mattered more for substance than structure.

“Every organisation has such people,” Mohanty notes. “They may not be visible on paper, but internally, they are the ones others instinctively turn to for direction and clarity.”

What sets these figures apart is their selflessness. They operate without hidden agendas, seeking neither promotion nor power. As trusted confidantes focused solely on organisational success, they don’t demand teams or authority—but when they speak, people listen and, crucially, act.

The invisible skills

What distinguishes soft influencers isn’t merely intent or integrity, but how they consistently translate emotional intelligence into everyday actions that shift team dynamics. They ask timely, thoughtful questions—not to be heard, but to unlock perspectives and help others find clarity. During pressured moments when tensions flare, they remain calm, grounding others with quiet presence.

Perhaps most critically, they carry institutional memory, recalling past decisions and lessons to provide context when teams risk repeating mistakes. Kamal Vatnani, VP-global HR, NewVision Software, emphasises this: “Soft influencers are not always on the radar of performance appraisals or leadership charts, but they are often the first people employees turn to in times of confusion or crisis.”

Their influence operates through what can only be described as social radar—reading rooms’ emotional temperature and sensing what remains unsaid. Consider a product-launch team burning out amid rising tensions and finger-pointing. Amidst the chaos, someone quietly asks: “What’s really keeping us from moving forward—fear of failure or fear of blame?” The room resets. That’s soft influence: not loud or directive, but catalytic.

The Recognition Gap

Yet these vital contributors often fly beneath conventional talent frameworks. Their work rarely appears on KPIs, and they seldom seek spotlights. This represents a significant missed opportunity. “They are the glue of the organisation,” says Mohanty. “If you don’t recognise them, they may disengage—not out of disappointment, but because no one has tapped into their potential.”

The challenge intensifies in traditional hierarchies where formal authority overshadows voice. Whilst start-ups and founder-led companies naturally create space for such roles, even large enterprises need these bridge-builders who connect organisational layers and provide unfiltered leadership insights.

Cultivating quiet leadership

Progressive organisations are beginning to recognise and nurture soft influence. At Vedanta, Purohit ensures this approach permeates leadership style: “The best leaders today do not merely lead with command. They lead by making people feel safe. They are present in their team’s journey—not only during reviews but during crunch moments too.”

Soft influencers prove particularly crucial for embedding inclusive cultures. They often first support silently struggling team members, notice who’s withdrawing from conversations, or gently challenge unfair behaviour. Their impact burns slowly but transforms deeply.

“True influence is quiet,” Vatnani observes. “It’s built on presence, not position. And the sooner organisations learn to value these silent catalysts, the stronger their teams will be.”

Smart companies are learning to spot these hidden assets. They thrive in cultures where hierarchy doesn’t overshadow voice, where psychological safety allows authentic contribution, and where consistent delivery matters more than organisational position.

The sustainability question

The rise of soft influencers reflects broader workplace evolution. As traditional command-and-control structures prove insufficient for complex, collaborative work, organisations increasingly depend on these unofficial leaders who build bridges, provide context, and maintain morale.

However, questions remain about sustainability. Without formal recognition or career pathways, even the most dedicated soft influencers may eventually seek environments where their contributions receive appropriate acknowledgement.

The future of influence

Next time a team performs exceptionally well, look beyond the formal leader. The real driver may be sitting quietly in the corner, weaving together morale, clarity, and cohesion that made success possible. In an era where human connection increasingly determines organisational effectiveness, these quiet catalysts may represent the future of workplace influence—authority earned through empathy, not hierarchy.

Source – https://www.hrkatha.com/features/the-quiet-ones-who-really-run-the-office/

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