A 29-year-old employee working at a firm in Mumbai’s Goregaon has alleged that his female boss repeatedly touches him during file reviews and sits close “trying to tempt,” according to a post on Reddit that has sparked debate on workplace harassment laws.
The man, who joined the company six months ago, wrote that the behaviour began subtly but has now become frequent. “Initially I thought it might be by mistake, but it is now very often… she will randomly touch *ss, thighs, arms, and will sit close trying to tempt… and then laughs or cracks jokes,” he wrote, adding that his boss is married and has children.
The employee said he is reluctant to switch jobs so early in his tenure and fears retaliation if he seeks an internal transfer. “Spoke with colleagues for internal department switch, but they’re like bosses will make life hell if we do internal switches,” he wrote.
‘Life has become hell’
The man described his situation as unbearable and asked if he should complain. “My life has become hell because of this,” he said, adding that a friend dismissed his concerns, telling him to “enjoy it,” advice he rejected.
Online users urge POSH complaint
The viral Reddit post triggered strong reactions, with several users urging the employee to raise a Prevention of Sexual Harassment (POSH) complaint, while others advised him to be cautious.
“Man, the POSH complaint would be a no-brainer,” wrote one user. “But in a first-world country! In India, men can never be victims of sexual inappropriateness according to law! Whatever steps you take, you’re putting your career on the line! Please be careful!”
Others clarified that while the POSH Act, 2013, is designed for women, many organisations have adopted gender-neutral policies. “I’m a part of the POSH committee, and my company has included all genders. So really depends upon the company,” one commenter said.